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Referrals

IPSA Referral Service


  • Referring clients to therapists or to a therapist-surrogate team.
  • Referring therapists to well-trained, ethical, professional surrogate partners.
  • Helping clients and therapists determine whether Surrogate Partner Therapy is the right course of treatment for a particular client.

Surrogate Partner Therapy is an adjunct form of therapy in which a therapist, a surrogate partner, and client form a three-person team in order to better understand and resolve the clients’ long-standing difficulties with physical and emotional intimacy. The two most common forms of this therapy are local therapy and intensive therapy.

When a surrogate and therapist are both available in the client’s community, the client may participate in local therapy—typically meeting with the therapist for about an hour a week and meeting with the surrogate partner for 1-2 hour hours each week. The first meeting between surrogate and client is arranged by the supervising therapist. The client continues to see the therapist for private, counseling sessions, and the therapist and surrogate consult via phone or in person, usually after every session.

When local therapy is not an option, clients may still be able to participate in surrogate partner therapy by working intensively with a therapist and surrogate. IPSA provides clients and therapists with information and referrals necessary to help clients who need this therapy find programs that will work for them.

The first step in the referral process involves determining whether Surrogate Partner Therapy is likely to be the right course of treatment for you or your clients. IPSA offers free phone consultations to assist clients and therapists in this initial decision-making process.

Intensive Therapy


Intensive Therapy is a condensed program of surrogate partner therapy. During an Intensive, a qualified therapist, an IPSA surrogate partner, and a client meet every day to work on resolving the client’s sex and relationship difficulties.

IPSA organized the Intensive Therapy referral program so that individuals from across the country and around the world would be able to participate in high-quality Surrogate Partner Therapy at roughly the same cost as a local program.

If the client is currently in therapy, the client and his/her local therapist may contact IPSA to discuss whether this is the right course of treatment for the client and whether there is a surrogate member willing to travel to their area to work with the client and his existing therapist.

Alternatively the client may travel to another location, such as California, to work with a therapist and surrogate team there. California Intensives are the most common and easiest to arrange. Click here to read more.

IPSA will work with you to set dates for the Intensive. If the Intensive will not include your current therapist, you will receive a phone call from the IPSA therapist member who will be supervising the case and supporting you through it. In this call you will be able to discuss your history, ask questions, and begin to build your working relationship with the therapist. This therapist will direct your program and obtain daily feedback from you and your surrogate partner. You will have many opportunities to discuss your personal issues and concerns with your team therapist throughout the Intensive.

Local Therapy


Surrogate Partner Therapy is currently available in only a few communities worldwide. To determine whether Surrogate Partner Therapy is available in your community contact the IPSA Referrals Coordinator.

IPSA endeavors to refer clients who do not have a therapist to local therapists with expertise in the treatment of the client’s specific concerns. IPSA can assist both the client and the therapist to determine whether working with a surrogate partner is the best course of treatment for the client. Sometimes the client’s current general therapist is able to also serve as the supervising therapist in the surrogate partner therapy.

When a supervising therapist and client have determined that Surrogate Partner Therapy is the right course of treatment for the client, the therapist first interviews and then initiates a referral to a professional surrogate partner. IPSA can advise therapists about the referral options available in their communities, and when possible will refer therapists to local, certified surrogate partners. When local surrogates are not available, IPSA will advise the therapist about any other referral options that may be appropriate for their clients.

If you are a therapist considering Surrogate Partner Therapy for your client(s), please contact IPSA’s Referrals Director for more information about the responsibilities of the therapist in this therapy, the appropriateness of this therapy for your specific client(s),and to request referrals to certified surrogate partners. Every effort will be made to assist you in meeting your clients’ needs. Please write or call the Referrals Coordinator for information and/or assistance. (1-310-836-1662)

If you are a client seeking referral to Surrogate Partner Therapy, please include your location when you request assistance from IPSA.

Message to Prospective Clients:


You may be able to obtain initial information about surrogate partner therapy from your current therapist. Please have your therapist contact the IPSA Referrals Coordinator to begin discussions about possible Intensive Therapy. If you are not currently in therapy or your therapist prefers not to participate, the referrals coordinator will assist you in deciding whether this is an appropriate avenue of therapy for you, and will endeavor to find a therapist with whom you can work on your difficulties.

Message to Referring Therapists:


If you have a client who you think might benefit from Surrogate Partner Therapy, you are invited to contact IPSA to learn more about this adjunctive form of therapy, and to initiate the referral process for your client.

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